What to Look for in a Colorado Domestic Relations Attorney
Choosing the right domestic relations attorney is one of the most important decisions you can make during a divorce or child custody case. The outcome of your family law matter will affect your finances, your future, and your relationship with your children. You deserve an advocate who understands the legal landscape, listens to your concerns, and helps you navigate the process with clarity and confidence.
Here are the key qualities to look for when hiring a Colorado domestic relations attorney:
1. Exclusive Focus on Family Law
Colorado family law is complex and constantly evolving. You want an attorney who focuses exclusively on domestic relations matters, including divorce, child custody, parenting time, child support, spousal maintenance, and post-decree modifications. An attorney who handles only family law will be more familiar with the courts, local procedures, and recent case law that could affect your case.
2. Clear and Honest Communication
The legal process can be confusing and emotional. Your attorney should be someone who communicates clearly, answers your questions promptly, and explains your options in plain language. Look for someone who will be upfront about both the strengths and challenges in your case — not just tell you what you want to hear.
3. Strategic and Settlement-Oriented, But Prepared for Trial
The vast majority of family law cases settle out of court, and a good attorney will help you explore reasonable resolutions. But sometimes litigation is necessary — especially in high-conflict or complex cases. Your attorney should be a skilled negotiator and a strong advocate in the courtroom, ready to protect your interests if trial becomes unavoidable.
4. Personalized Attention
Family law cases are deeply personal. You need more than just a lawyer — you need someone who takes the time to understand your unique situation, your goals, and your concerns. Many large firms delegate work to junior attorneys or paralegals. If personal attention matters to you, consider working with a solo attorney or small firm where you’ll deal directly with your lawyer from start to finish.
5. Local Knowledge and Court Experience
Every Colorado county — from Denver and Jefferson to El Paso, Larimer, Arapahoe, and beyond — has its own procedures and nuances. Your attorney should be familiar with the judges, court clerks, and filing rules in the counties where your case is being heard. Local experience can make a real difference in how efficiently and effectively your case is handled.
6. Empathy and Professionalism
Family law matters are emotionally charged. Whether you’re going through a difficult divorce or seeking to protect your parenting rights, your attorney should treat you with empathy and respect. Look for someone who maintains professionalism, helps reduce conflict when possible, and truly cares about helping you move forward.
Why Stordahl Law Might Be the Right Fit
At Stordahl Law, PLLC, we focus exclusively on Colorado family law and serve clients across the Front Range. Founding attorney Patrick Stordahl offers clear communication, personalized attention, and strong advocacy for individuals and families navigating divorce, custody, and post-decree matters.
We welcome clients from all backgrounds, including LGBTQ+ individuals and families, and offer both full representation and unbundled services depending on your needs.
